The biggest and most difficult decision is life always
about, what we want to make of it. So, how do most of us take that call? How do
we know what the right thing to do is or even to not do? How do we know that
what we’re doing today will benefit us tomorrow? How do we know that we’ll be
happy?
Now, let me try to answer all those questions to the best of
my experience and knowledge.
The call. The trickiest thing ever, to be or not to be. This
is perhaps the toughest one. I for one, never ever know, even till the last
minute, and more often than not, just end up trusting my gut. I find this one
so difficult, that once, out of sheer frustration, unable to discuss or argue
further about whether to do or not, I simply tossed a coin.
Heads, I do it. Tails, I don’t.
At other, more sensible and sane times, I call up my closest
friends, and pour my heart out to them, and let them give me inputs and then
decide. And sometimes, I just blindly follow the societal norm of what’s
expected and do it. So many different ways for just one person to decide.
But that is the nature of the hurdles life throws to us.
Sometimes, it’s an easy catch, and sometimes we need to dive, and scrape our
elbows for it!
The next hurdle is always after you take the call, whether
the call we’ve taken is right or not. Now, that’s something that we have no way
of knowing before taking the call. Some decisions on the face of it appear to
be the most correct, but might not be so in reality, while others may appear to
be not so good, but might benefit us the most!
So, what I believe is that only 50% of the decision is ever
completely in our hands, for the other 50%, we just need to take a leap of
faith. Which means, jump first, and pray real hard that there be a cushion
underneath!
In short, what I mean to say is that let your life take you
places, but then once there, you always have the choice of what you’re going to
make out of it. From there on courage, determination, discipline and love help
us make our lives.
Our life is like an empty canvas, life gives us the
assortment of paints that we’re to use on it, to make it beautiful and
fruitful. Now, it’s our choice what kind of shades we choose to paint on it,
and in what way. We may just splash random colours, and make a mess of it, or
plan ahead, choose the right shades, and make a gorgeous painting out of it.
And what’s to happen when the paint runs out? No worries,
life will always give us the option to open a whole new set of paints, with
different shades, they might be different from what we’ve used before, but
there’re also paints.
Wonder who’s the paintbrush in the entire scenario?
Some people like to call it destiny, some fate, and some
others like to call him God. Just like the paintbrush helps to transfer the
paint onto the canvas, God/fate/destiny helps us to find our path in life.
So, don’t fret if life isn’t a smooth ride right now. It
might be a bumpy ride right now, but yes, Life will take us to that special
place, and we’ll make it a haven, a wonderful place of our own, and carve out
our niche.